Posts tagged "Personal Development"

Why It’s ALWAYS Your Fault… (the freedom of taking responsiblity)

This post is in response to the recent Hulse Tribe video that posted titled “Detachment (how to stay strong despite your emotions)” – In it I describe an unfortunate event that befell my immediate family and how Colleen and I were able to navigate the emotional roller coaster and walk away stronger than before the event by practicing that ancient Stoic ideal of Detachment.

Last weekend Colleen and I took our 3 girls and newborn baby boy, Benjamin, over to my parents house.  My mother, like all women, is a sucker for children and babies.  She must have sat holding Benjamin in her arms just staring at his face for 3 hours.  When I came over to her to check on Benjamin she offered me the very often repeated aphorism…

“Ahhh, to be a child again…. wouldn’t it be wonderful to just sleep there and have every demand granted by a loving person?”

As always, which sometimes gets annoying to family and friends, I had a deeply philosophical retort as to why her idea of being “a child again” was the worst possible thing that could ever befall us.

I was a rebellious kid, there was nothing worse to me than having adults including my parents and teachers tell me what to do. I knew that without my guardians I would have no one to care for me, but I also desired freedom so badly that I was happy to give up the comfort of handouts.  (this is why I would often run away from home for days at a time… to prove that I didn’t need help)

Even today, I choose to “wing it” as a entrepreneur that enjoys the freedom of calling my own shots, but also takes the fall when things don’t work out.

You see, this is the paradox of FREEDOM. “There is NO guarantee of safety when you choose freedom!” or “In freedom there is no promise of safety”. (you can use these both as authentic Elliott Hulse quotes)

Benjamin Franklin also once wrote: “Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both.  He who gives up freedom for safety deserves neither.”


When you give up the idea that your parents, your boss, your wife and the government should be taking care of you… and you take up the sword of self reliance, you tell yourself and the world that “I am in charge of my life and my destiny!”

You are also asserting that: Whether I win or lose… it is my fault, NO ONE ELSE– MINE! If in my struggle for freedom I find failure and death I am grateful, for I have known what it is to be a man that holds his own and has earned the rights of responsibility.

Like William Wallace in Braveheart, “Give me freedom or give me death!”

The dream of freedom holds little merit today as many people seem to prefer government handouts, employee benefits and “stimulus packages” over the invigorating journey of constructing their lives with the two strong and calloused hands of Faith & Freedom, that are animated by the blood of Hard Work.

My invitation to you:

Choose to take staunch steps in the direction of your dreams DESPITE the guarantee of success. It is never a matter of worldly success.  It is never a matter of how much money you’ll make or what car you’ll drive… these things are simply ego gratification that shows others that you too are a slave to the opinions of the masses and have accepted conditioning from marketers and media.

Take staunch steps in the direction of your dreams because you are FREE to do so.  Exercise your FREEDOM and take responsibility for the results.  Look deep within your heart and bring fourth the song that emanates from the depths of your being.  Your success is found in exercising your freedom to be The Strongest Version Of Yourself.  And only YOU know what that looks like.

Recommended Resources:

The Manifesto Of Strength

Hulse Strength Tribe Membership

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Posted by Elliott - September 20, 2010 at 8:18 am

Categories: Motivation, Recent Posts, Strong Character   Tags: elliott hulse, Personal Development, responsiblity, stoicism, stronger you

How To Become The Strongest Version of YOU!

Elliott describes his evolving position on personal development, health and fitness. The 6 principles provide a holistic perspective for becoming “The Strongest Version of Yourself”.

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Posted by Elliott - June 16, 2010 at 11:28 am

Categories: Recent Posts, Strong Body, Strong Character   Tags: 6 strength wisdom principles, Personal Development

Scientific Construction of a Strong Character

In this highly motivating video I teach you my system for Scientific Construction of a Strong Character.  These are the exact steps that anyone looking to leave an enduring positive LEGACY must follow.

I’ve very interested to learn more about your challenges and successes with regard to the development of a STRONG CHARACTER.  I invite you to add your thoughts below.

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Posted by Elliott - May 13, 2010 at 1:12 pm

Categories: Motivation, Recent Posts, Strong Character   Tags: Personal Development, self esteem, strong character, thought seeds

Strength & Wisdom Journal part 9

Wake up, we NEED you!


In my most recent Strength & Wisdom Tribe video lesson, titled Effortless Success, I gave you a few examples of how to effectively remove the self-imposed mental roadblocks that have been holding you back from tackling your dreams.  These roadblocks typically manifest themselves in the form of Fear, Doubt and Anxiety.

Let me tell you an honest story… Although I may present with a posture of solid self-confidence and purpose, I have battled with the sin of self doubt for my entire life.  Still today, as you actively observe me shift my main focus in teaching, from the building of mere physical strength towards FULL personal development and the building of character and life strength, I have tremendous self doubt. (but from all the recent registrations for our new Strength & Wisdom Tribe membership, I think I am finally on the right path)

Tell me if this sounds familiar. Have you ever thought of a great idea for a new business or project that involves the enrollment of other people, then you think about or physically map out the entire plan… only to sit on it and never bring it to fruition?

I have done this COUNTLESS times.  In fact, last weekend while packing up our belongings to move our growing tribe to a bigger “hut”, I found several old fitness and lifestyle manuals that I created over 4 years ago, that I never built up the balls to actually sell to people! — And here is the REALLY bad part… the information that was in these manuals are life changing!  There was really some great stuff in these books, that I created, that were just sitting on a shelf in my daughters closet.

Why would anyone do this?

Why would someone be gifted with a great idea, talent, faculty or passion and just SIT on it… letting it collect dust?

Why wouldn’t they just get off their butts and bring their POWER to the world? — Serving perhaps millions of people with their gift!?!?

I personally think it is because of 2 nasty, insidious, little *sins that tackle us while we’re on our path towards creative servitude and SUCCESS.

*NOTE: Unlike how Christian conditioning has totally destroyed the root meaning of the word “sin”, where it is professed that sin is some sort of possession by “the devil” that makes us bad or “sinful”,  I use it here in its original context derived from an Archery term meaning “to miss.”  When I say “sin”, I simply mean that we’ve “missed” the point.  We’re still good people, we just missed something and can always go back to correct it.

Like I mentioned in my last video, Fear and Doubt act as inhibitors that disallow God’s work to be completed through your hands. THIS is a very powerful paradigm to adopt!

God fulfills His work, His plans, His-tory through the hands of men!

When we begin to remove the focus from ourselves, when we stop asking “what will people think of me?”, or “what if I fail?”, and begin to consider that the seed that God has planted in you… whether it is to start your own coaching business, open a gym, begin writing novels, play the harp, become a stay-at-home mom (or dad) OR… begin a blog where you can share your stories, ideas and deepest convictions with your readers for the sole intention of seeing them take action and living up to their TRUE potential — it is Gods plan, not ours.

God loves beautiful, stronger bodies that are disease resistant. God loves football. God loves great stories and literature. God WANTS you to be home to care for your children, and God NEEDS you to share your wisdom and experiences with others in order to inspire them.

It is NOT about me.  It is NOT about you… and if you ask God, it really isn’t about Him either.

God want you to SERVE his children.  He wants all of the beautiful things described above, not for himself, but for us to share with one another.

When we let fear and doubt stop us from quitting a job that is unfulfilling in order to pursue our dream of opening a warehouse gym where we can train young athletes and build their character.  When we ignore the “Still, Small Voice” within, that is urging us to pick up the guitar we once loved to play so joyfully, but “life” got in the way of it’s practice, we are not only letting ourselves down… we are letting God down and even worse, we are letting each other down.

When this becomes our habit we are no better than the apple tree in the orchard that yields no fruit.  We are, for all intents and purposes, functionally useless.  Perhaps the apple tree still creates shade with its leaves, but it’s true function… is dead.  It is functionally useless.

What kind of legacy do you want to leave when you die?

How do you want to be remembered by others, especially your loved ones?

Will they say that you were “a giver”? — You freely gave of your BEST parts? — Or did you let your BEST parts die and wither away like the once fertile buds of a now useless apple tree.

If you are stirred by what I am saying… then continue to THINK about it.  Awareness effortlessly breeds change.

And when you Wake Up, we’ll still NEED you. :)

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Posted by Elliott - April 29, 2010 at 12:09 pm

Categories: Recent Posts, Strong Character   Tags: inspiration, Personal Development, strength journal, we need you

The Art of Spontaneous Achievement

***HULSE STRENGTH & WISDOM TRIBE MEMBERS ONLY***  I made this video lesson in response to my last Strength & Wisdom Journal (#8), where I explained the crazy idea that Personal Evolution happens in Quantum Leaps.  Basically, the idea that when we achieve success in one area in our lives it is accompanied by a host of seemingly unrelated other successes.  The model I show you in this video has been drawn from the ideas presented by Abraham Maslow and his Hierarchy Of Needs.

How have you experienced Spontaneous Success?  Please share and discuss in the comments area below!

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Posted by Elliott - April 28, 2010 at 6:49 am

Categories: Recent Posts   Tags: Personal Development, spontaneous success model, Success

My Success Mentors

Whenever starting out in any new endeavour of which I have little or no experience, the first thing I do, is as Brian Tracy says, “Find one who has achieved what you will, and imitate their every move.”

Basically, find someone (a mentor) who you can “Copy Cat”.

Throughout my life I have entered into and out of several developmental stages, each of which required a new mentor for me to “Copy Cat”.

Since most of my interest lies in the realms of Personal Development, Spirituality, Relationships, Health And Business as I described in a previous post => Elliott Hulse’s Personal Development Secrets , my mentors have been consistent with these ideals.

Below are a few short clips of a few the men who have helped shape my mind, manners, life and aspirations.  Often, it was just a simple statement or a “tip” from one of these gentlemen that drastically altered the direction of my life.

Today, I seek to “Pay It Forward” by serving others with my experiences through this blog and with my in-depth personal development or business courses like the  “How To Start Your Own Warehouse Gym” course.

Brian Tracy

Paul Chek

Edmund Hulse (My Father)

Earl Nightingale

OSHO

Ralph Waldo Emerson

PS – Oh, have you gotten my FREE CD yet? ==> “How To Start Your Own Warehouse Gym

PSS — I’d love to hear about your mentors or any book, movie or song that has been supportive to you in achieveing goals and becoming a STRONGER man!!

Just comment below!

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Posted by Elliott - June 1, 2009 at 5:31 am

Categories: Motivation, Recent Posts, Strong Character   Tags: brian tracy, chek, emerson, mentor, Motivation, osho, Personal Development, Success